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Pareciera ser que continuamente nos hallamos en procesos introspectivos, cuyo punto principal de enfoque son nuestras necesidades y anhelos. Nos deseamos unidos a alguien y por lo general huimos de la soledad permanente. Ésta sensación de soledad y búsqueda proviene desde las culturas antiguas que mediante mitos, trataban de entender los orígenes de amor y deseo.

Tenemos la historia del andrógino (ser compuesto del mismo o ambos sexos), que al ser dividido en dos por Zeus, “cada mitad hacía esfuerzos para encontrar la otra mitad de que había sido separada; y cuando se encontraban ambas, se abrazaban y se unían, llevadas del deseo de entrar en su antigua unidad, con un ardor tal que abrazadas, perecían de hambre e inanición, no queriendo hacer nada la una sin la otra”.

La necesidad hacia el otro nos va llevando rumbo a su búsqueda, se nos forma el deseo de tenerle y así acallar nuestra soledad. Octavio Paz, dentro de su ensayo El Laberinto de la Soledad, nos habla sobre el amor y el deseo que el primero crea sobre el individuo, quien viéndose solo, busca refugio en aquel que cree es su complemento, como aquella mitad que tanto buscaba el andrógino. Sin embargo a su vez se encuentra con diversos obstáculos que inhiben la búsqueda (los obstáculos pueden ser la moral, las normas sociales, la religión, etc.) y vuelven a la culpa la “espuela y el freno del deseo” . La culpa actúa en este instante como limitante, formando una barrera que impide tener libre elección (de la cual Paz también nos habla en su texto La dialéctica de la soledad), nosotros mismos seguimos las normas de auto censura, nos negamos la oportunidad de elegir lo que queremos y optamos por lo que nos conviene o lo que alguien ajeno a nuestros deseos, cree es mejor para nosotros.

En tanto al andrógino que se explicaba con anterioridad, nos remonta al deseo definido como una falta, como la necesidad de algo que no se tiene. Veo al deseo por el otro como una añoranza de esa presencia humana que cual andrógino, sea aquel con quien podamos recrear nuestra antigua unidad. Si el deseo es la añoranza por el otro, creo entonces al deseo como un estado de inestabilidad, de constante búsqueda del contrario, el equilibrio. Es un estado que por su misma cualidad inestable, se halla en movimiento consigo mismo y con todo lo que le rodea. Descartes en Las pasiones del alma, hace referencia a este movimiento continuo que agita al corazón más que cualquiera otra de las pasiones (amor, tristeza, odio, alegría), dando como justificación que el movimiento corporal que aviva los sentidos es a causa de los espíritus (“cuerpos muy pequeños…que se mueven rápidamente…, no se detienen en ningún sitio y a medida que algunos de ellos entran en la cavidad del cerebro , salen también algunos otros por los poros que hay en su sustancia, los cuales los conducen a los nervios, y de aquí a los músculos, lo que les permite mover el cuerpo, de todas las diversas maneras como puede ser movido” ). Éste impulso creado por el deseo es quien luego nos impulsará hacia el amor, hacia el odio o quizás hacia la indiferencia.

En cuanto al amor, Paz nos remite a éste como algo no natural, que es enteramente humano, pero que no pertenece a su naturaleza, algo que el individuo crea. A diferencia del mito del andrógino que nos muestra amor y deseo por el otro, como algo inherente a la naturaleza de un ser que se mantiene en la constante búsqueda de su complemento, de un ser que se siente solo. Aquí es cuando “la resolución del deseo en placer coincide exactamente con el momento en que la soledad triunfa absolutamente” , nada más absurdo que querer cargar con más historia que la nuestra propia.

El deseo por el otro es la añoranza con la que nos encontramos, cuando al buscar la fusión de dos cuerpos, advertimos el abismo al cual nos acercamos. Puesto que nunca habrá una unión corporal con el otro. El deseo quizás sea entonces un refugio contra la soledad y para afianzar la permanencia, una energía que nos mantiene despiertos, o simplemente una necesidad que hemos ido arrastrando a lo largo del tiempo; hasta encontrar al complemento, a otra vida con la cual compartir un sin fin de patologías.

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